Thursday, May 30, 2013

Is he the right person for me?


Is he the right person for me?


The sun is shining, what a beautiful day it is, and suddenly this handsome guy approaches you. He is the guy of your dreams…. Your heart skips a beat only to beat faster and faster, he is perfect in every way. There is this cool air about him, when he approached you and asked to take you out, his attitude and charm were enough to make you say yes; and in no time you were dating, thinking he was the man of your dreams. He is romantic, smells good and knows just what to say to make you fall deeper in-love with him. Your feelings for this man have become so powerful that you constantly fear losing him fear. He treats you like a princess, all your friends are jealous of you because you are dating the one guy that everyone would love to date; the most handsome guy in school. You look into his eyes and they seem to pierce deep into your thoughts and you instantly feel shy as if he could read your thoughts.
Although everything seems to be going well a thought comes into your mind…. Is he the right person for me? He has started changing little by little, even though you have been dating for a long time, he still has not said a word about marriage and that makes you wonder if there is something wrong with your relationship. What should you do now?
Well, dear friend for you to know if this is the right person or not, you need to make a decision using your intelligence and not your emotions. You need to evaluate everything about him starting with his attitude towards everything that is of importance to you. Check to see; what is he like with his family and friends? Is he responsible? Find out about his past, why did his past relationships not work out? Do not allow your emotions to decide for you, instead use your intelligence to decide what is in your best interest……